Friday, September 14, 2007

Relationship Status

  • When is a good time to make a relationship official? After how many dates that is? How exactly do you make a relationship official too?

Well, you might not like my answer, but here it is: "an answer given by another person usually is not remembered for very long"

What I mean by that is-what you know about your relationship is far more valuable than what I could possibly guess. Your answer is going to be the remembered answer-the one that will lead you to action.

But I'll put in my two cents anyway:

1. It is usually always better to move forward than to stand still

2. You must be confident in yourself--what's the worse that can happen?

3. Trust your instincts-when the time is right; you'll know.

4. In any potential relationship, it's important for both parties to be open and clear about how they feel. Do not let fear get in the way!

Some people date for a long time and never seem to have a good relationship. Others only have to meet once before they feel like it could last forever. Only you know under which category you fall. But I will leave you with one more quote:

"The combination of assurance and hope initiates action in the present."

It sounds like you have hope....now just gain some assurance in yourself and act accordingly!

Good luck!

-Amy



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